The Teaching Tree
For the last few months
during my morning peregrination, I had noticed a couple of small, green, unripe
papaya fruits hanging from their mother tree. They neither grew big nor shrunk with
the passage of time but seemed well ensconced in their mother’s arms. Every day
I would look at the two little papayas and wonder how the tree had held them
firm in its grip without letting them fall. Somehow an uneasy thought used to
cross my mind that the tree seemed over protective and did not give the tiny
green fruits enough space to grow and ripen into big yellow ones that would have
fallen down by their sheer weight. Last night’s thunder storm with dusty winds raging
at a speed over 90 kmph brought down many trees and this morning while walking through the devastation, I noticed the two
unripe fruits missing on the tree. My heart missed a beat as the tree had let
them go unable to withstand the thunder squall. The tree stood as a mute
spectator as the fruits lay scattered around the tree amidst fallen leaves and
branches.
I returned home with a
vicarious sadness at the mother tree losing her children especially the two weaker
ones who lacked adequate genetic strength to ripe and mature and stand on their
own. I ruminated pensively on protectiveness that hinders development of any
vestige of self dependence in a growing
person and denies them the opportunity to rise up to their potential even if
that potential is among the lowest rungs of human calibre. What is more alarming is protectiveness is a
double edged sword; it weakens him that gives and him that receives. Just as
the Tree could not hold on to its young ones in the presence of Nature’s fury, mother’s
protectiveness of her children against external power or influence-personal, social,
political or economic that is endemic to humans as social beings- ends in a
disaster. Mothers should learn to leave their
grip over their children at the time they start growing their wings and
not hang on to them till both end as victims to forces beyond their power to
resist.
I write this in the
context of the drubbing Congress had received in the recently concluded
elections. Mother-son relationship is always wonderful provided it does not
carry the baggage of protectiveness. The Rahul fruit clinging to the Sonia Papaya
has been blown by the Modi gale that swept through the nation. That fruit never
ripened in the first instance, as it was forever in the shadow of the
protective mother and in that unripened form did not have the strength and vigour
to face the onslaught of the fury whipped by a focused, Modi galvanized BJP. It
will be foolish for the Congress once again to pick the pieces that are strewn
all around the mother tree. It is time for the mother tree to leave the battle
to the better and more mature fruits that had ripened without her protective
garb and found favour with many who relished their sweetness. The seeds of those fruits have gone into the
soil and are rising up in new bloom.
Congress revival depends
on new seeds, fresh plants and
unfettered growth in a new ambience that
builds upon the inherited culture and philosophy of the 125 year old grand old
party and tweaks it purposefully to meet the aspirations of the new-age people that
go beyond their earlier demands that sought freedom from poverty, hunger and social deprivation. The
mighty fall of the mother-son duo must herald the rise of a new leadership that
is ethically and morally strong, intellectually visionary and emotionally at
home with diverse population, respecting every individual as a part of the
great Indian humanity.
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